Weekend Flirt: Use Lingerie to Spice Up Your Relationship

Why Wear Lingerie? by Roxanne Rhoads Lingerie may be the simplest and most effective tool in seduction. What man doesn't love looking at a woman in lingerie? Not only do men love seeing women in lingerie, something amazing usually happens when a woman puts on the right lingerie. She not only looks sexy, but she feels sexy, she becomes sexy. Lingerie can boost confidence and help shed inhibitions. The right lingerie can turn plain Jane into a smoldering sex kitten. Gifts are wonderful but we all know the most appealing packages are those wrapped in pretty wrapping paper, ribbons and bows. The wrapping makes the gift that much more enticing. Plus unwrapping the present adds more excitement. That is the affect and lure of lingerie. You want to package your goodies enticingly and give your partner a surprise and sexy gift to unwrap. Lingerie is a wonderful way to inspire romance and enhance your intimate encounters. Most of us save wearing lingerie for special occasions like Valentine's Day, birthdays or anniversaries, but it can be used at any time to add some extra heat to a relationship. Think of it as giving a surprise gift ‘just because'. There is no better way to let a man know that you want him and men love to be wanted. When he sees you standing there in something sexy, slinky, lacy or racy he'll instantly know what you have in mind. There are many types of lingerie to choose from. You can find everything from mild to wild from sweet and sensual to bold and risqué. Make sure to try lingerie on before buying if you can. Just because it looks good on the mannequin in the store or model in the catalog doesn't mean it will flatter you. Look for lingerie that enhances your natural assets and down plays or hides less flattering areas. For instance if you feel you have nice breasts but you hate your legs opt for a long flattering gown that accentuates your breasts and gives him a great view of your ample cleavage but seductively hides your legs. If you have a nice butt, look for something with a thong back. If you are not too fond of your backside choose something like a baby doll gown that just covers up your behind or something with tap pants that flows around your bottom without clinging too tightly. Whatever you choose he's sure to love it and not notice any of your flaws because he'll be too focused on how sexy you look. The lingerie options are seemingly endless on what is available to purchase. Not only are the options endless so are the places to purchase lingerie from. Not only do you have the old stand bys like Victoria's Secret and Fredericks of Hollywood but stores have popped up everywhere catering to lingerie and adult items, there are tons of catalogs available to mail order shop through, you can even have a sales consultant give a lingerie party in your home through a company like Undercover Wear, then there are the endless internet sites that sell lingerie. You are only as limited as your imagination and your pocketbook, happy shopping.